Special thanks to Howard Han of http://www.fixitinpost.org/ who contributed some song recommendations:
Songs Included and contributors rationale:
"Denial Revisited" - The Offspring: Im embarrassed to say this, but I listened to the offspring beyond 'keep them separated' and pretty fly for a white guy. For me, this has always been the perfect break up song: two people know that it's over, one of them is walking away but the other just won't let go. In the end, however, he knows that it's over.
"It Ain't Me Babe" - Bob Dylan: The ultimate 'f&#$ you song' for a girl. It says, "you know what, everything you need, i don't have and won't give to you girl."
"Love Will Tear Us Apart" - Joy Division. Title says it all.
"No Children"- Mountain Goats: This song is what I would play if I knew I was getting a divorce.
"Fuck You Lucy"- Atmosphere: I listened to this song the first I was really heartbroken. For me, it expresses all of the negative/raw emotions associated with breaking up with someone.
"Come Pick Me Up" - Ryan Adams: For me, anti-love songs are about hurtint he other person as much as they've hurt you. This song has a lot of that.
"Song for the Dumped - ben folds five (Yes we did find a japanese version!)
"Dakota" - Stereophonics
"Dry Your Eyes Mate" - the Streets
"(I Hate) Everything About You" - Three Days Grace
"Bang Bang (My Baby Shot Me Down)" - Nancy Sinatra
"Positive Tension" - Bloc Party
"Tiny Vessels" - Death Cab for Cutie
"Kiss Off" - Violent Femmes
"Funeral" - Saves the Day
"Emily Kane" - Art Brut
"Lost Cause" - Beck
"Driftwood" - Cursive
"Dickhead" - Kate Nash
"90 Mile Waterwall" - The National
"Piece of My Heart" - Janis Joplin
"Get Yo Shit" - Black Joe Lewis
"Me/A Man/Then Jim" - Rilo Kiley
"50 Ways To Leave Your Lover" - Paul Simon "
"I Should Have Known Better" - She + Him